Poker Etiquette for First-Timers
What to do, what never to do, and how to order at the table without slowing the game — the unwritten rules made written.
Act in turn, announce clearly, protect your cards — the three rules that cover ninety percent.
Tipping the dealer is customary, not compulsory — the drink tray makes it easy.
The fastest way to get the table onside: order through the waiter, not the dealer.
The rules nobody writes down
Poker's printed rules take five minutes. The etiquette takes a few uncomfortable hands to learn — unless someone tells you upfront. Act only in turn, declare your action clearly (a chip pushed silently across the line can read as a call when you meant a raise), and keep your cards visible on the felt at all times.
The mistakes that mark a newcomer: handling chips nervously, talking about folded hands, and the classic — asking the dealer to make change mid-hand. Everything has a moment; the etiquette is mostly about waiting for it.
The table forgives bad cards and bad beats. It doesn't forgive slowing the game.
House dealer · nine years on the felt
Housekeeping at our tables
Service at the table: the floor waiter takes orders — flag them, don't interrupt the hand. Tipping the dealer is a small gesture players appreciate after a win, never expected on a loss. Phone use between hands is fine; at showdown, pocket it.
At our tournaments specifically: the structure is published, levels run twenty minutes, and the dealer's call is final. Disputes go to the floor manager quietly — the worst players argue, the best ones appeal once and accept.
Four takeaways
The short version, for the notes app.
Declare every action — verbal beats ambiguous chips.
Order through the waiter — dealers deal, waiters wait.
Tip on wins, never required — a chip here and there is the custom.
One appeal, then accept — the floor manager's ruling ends it.
The friendliest first game
The Wednesday midweek series is built for newcomers — tuition hour from 6pm covers etiquette and basics before the cards come out.
Dinner's included in the buy-in, so arrive hungry, learn the game at the tuition table, then take your seat knowing exactly what to do.
The Floor Team
The floor team — dealers and hosts who've seen every first-timer mistake invented and a few that weren't.
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Quick answers
Take the seat
Tuition at 6, cards at 7:30 — the most forgiving way to learn the game.